Recently, a married, 42 year-old father of three daughters asked me if I ever considered being the “other woman.” First of all, who “considers” that? You don’t wake up one morning and decide that you’re going to make yourself not even second-best because you might be there, but only in the shadows and no one can know about you. And mind you, I do not know this man.
Is there anything, and someone please point it out to me if there is, about me that says that I cannot be someone’s number one? Anything?! Guy after guy and man after man. Seriously, I don’t know what it is about me that would make multiple people think that I’m only good enough to be there if I am kept a secret.
I’m not throwing myself at anyone, I’m not hinting things at anyone, I’m not dressing in a manner that’s dirty-thought-provoking… So what exactly am I doing or not doing? Someone, anyone, please, please, tell me.